I can't fly a flag for monogamy or whatever the opposite is; it depends on the person and on the situation.
Friendship admits of difference of character, as love does that of sex.
I think sometimes women are stuck in a type. I've never dated the same type. I fall in love with personalities, and they come in different packages.
I'm drawn to women who live in a world different from my own. I don't believe you have to marry someone from your own backyard. James Joyce married a woman who never read any of his books.
In my early twenties, I had no idea who I was. And I think that's one reason you should try different relationships. I've had good and bad ones, but I took away things from them that helped me become who I am.
I have two sisters; one is two years older, and one is eight years older. That helped me understand how completely different sister relationships can be.
Y'know, every relationship is different. There are good marriages, bad marriages, connected partners, unconnected partners.
Why is marriage the pinnacle for everyone? People get married for the wrong reasons. We need to start looking at different packages, whether it's living together, or being with six partners, or dedicating your life to taking care of flowers.
Like species, couples die out or evolve.
Love comes in far more shapes and sizes than what the family-values crowd condones, of course.
No two love stories are the same though the love factor might be the same.
I change my mind so much I need two boyfriends and a girlfriend.
Why am I sharing this part of my life when it opens me up to judgment? But part of me wants to share that part of my life because I think non-monogamy is a normal thing for human beings to want.
I believe our differences are the little pinches of salt that can make the marriage seem more flavorful.
I like the idea of going out with a woman and not doing anything, and just eating dinner and talking, and that's cool, too. So, someone might look at me and say, "No way, man. He's just banging strippers." And I do that, but not all the time.
At the end of the day, I think there is an important moment happening in our society right, and I have to do the right thing. At the end of the day, I don't label myself one way or another. I come from a place where I find it hard to identify with a label. I've dated men in the past, and now I'm dating a woman, and I see it as ultimately no big deal.
I guess I've dated smart guys, I've dated dumb guys, hot guys.
It's really extraordinary what a variety of ways of loving there must be. We all do it as it was never done before.
I think people should be allowed to do what they want to do. I think that it doesn't make sense for a certain class to be able to get married and be treated differently when others are not. But I don't equate polygamy with same-sex marriages - and I know you don't either. Polygamy is a different story because it has different class differentiations in it.
My husband's my soul mate. At the same time, RuPaul's my soul mate.
My brother and I have both dated a wide range of girls and not all of them have been posh.
Of course everyone should have the right to get married. But I think people need to remember sometimes that we don't all need to be the same. There's thousands of different types of relationships that people can have, whether it's completely monogamous or it's not monogamous, or they're married, or they're single or whatever it is.
I don't think our system, where we have one romantic partner, where we get married and we're only supposed to have sex with one person - that doesn't make a lot of sense. Not that polygamy makes any more sense. I've found a system that seems to work for me, and it doesn't require monogamous commitment from anyone.
Every marriage is weird! That's what it is - we just all need to start embracing the fact that there is no normal.
