I'm a serial dater. When I see someone I like, we go on multiple dates.
Just because I’m single and don’t date a lot, that doesn’t make me a lesbian.
I've not actually been on too many dates.
If you date one woman a year, times 10 years, and that's 10 women.
When I was not connected with someone, I didn't get asked out that often.
The important thing is to abide by the rule of threes. Either you see a woman three times in quick succession and then never again, or you maintain relations over the years but make sure that the rendezvous are at least three weeks apart.
When you're in your early 20s your love life seems to explode every 20 minutes or so. By the time you've reached your thirties, it is every five or ten years.
If you keep dating and keep out there, you keep a higher level of hope, and also, your skills at doing it improve because you're doing it more often, and you are bringing less anxiety to the table.
