What happens to the hole when the cheese is gone?
Absence blots people out. We really have no absent friends.
When Coltrane died, a void appeared in this music that has not been filled yet. He maintained a forward motion in his work and did not look back.
If you gave someone your heart and they died, did they take it with them? Did you spend the rest of forever with a hole inside you that couldn't be filled?
There are moments when the grief comes bubbling up. The first time I saw Chris's chair empty, that was really hard. And it was hard when I started folding up some of his sweaters that I so imagine him wearing.
Adam Yauch started the band. It's not like a thing where we could continue without him.
I know that I will never find my father in any other man who comes into my life, because it is a void in my life that can only be filled by him.
All we had was her room, her stories, and the quiet that settled in as we tried in vain to spread ourselves out and fill the space she'd left behind.
Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant.
I grew up not seeing my father, and it is a hole in my heart that will never heal.
It's difficult in your life when both parents pass so quickly and you're not really that old when they move on. There is a big gap in your life. There's a hole. You learn to live with it but never forget it.