Defining Identity Quotes

Well, you've got to be known for something. The danger of extreme versatility is that you don't spring to mind for anything.

I was a 19 year old kid; I was 170 lbs soaking wet. I didn't have an identity. I didn't have a look. I didn't have the proper gear. I was just a young guy trying to be a wrestler. So, to be honest, WWE didn't even give me a second look.

The first step that leads to our identity in life is usually not 'I know who I am,' but rather 'I know who I am not.'

What is my message? That is what troubles me. I have not got a message.

You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don't think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully.

My main motivation for staying in the spotlight at all is, I don't want to just be known for being involved in 'Playboy,' or having been Hugh Hefner's girlfriend - I hate that. I like to show I can do other things and take on other challenges. That's my main motivation.

What is important in your life is what you decide is important -- and this decision will indelibly create who you are

I think I didn't know what I was creating, as much as I knew what I didn't want to do. And I didn't want my mother's life. She was an unhappy, frustrated artist who always dreamed of a life that was never going to be hers.

All that appears in your life is a blessing, presenting you with a greater opportunity to define who you are, and to know yourself as that.

It took me a long time to realize this: We get to choose what defines us.