The guys who fear becoming fathers don't understand that fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man. The end product of child-raising is not the child but the parent.
I think there's a settled quality, there's a gravitas that comes with aging and with being a parent because you certainly come to recognize that there's nothing else that takes greater priority than raising your children.
Our need for certainty in an endeavor as uncertain as raising children makes explicit 'how-to-parent' strategies both seductive and dangerous.
Don't worry about trying to do a perfect job. There is no perfect job. There is no one way of raising your children.
Well, I say that the most important job you can possibly have is raising a child, and it needs to be treated that way. You have to show them, rather than just talk to them.
Kids don't come with instruction manuals. It's interesting, but after you have your kids, it's a blessing. It's not as hard as people may think it is.
I think I would have appreciated being at home with my kids a little bit more. Raising a child, surely that in itself is the biggest thing we're ever going to do?
There is no greater privilege in living than bringing a tiny new human being into the world and then trying to raise him or her properly during the next eighteen years. Doing that job right requires all the intelligence, wisdom, and determination you will be able to muster from day to day.
I'm just not one of those people who thought having biological children was that important, to me it was more about wanting to raise a child.
My parents had a normal life in Russia and they could have easily kept living a normal life, working and raising a child in Russia.
Training a puppy is like raising a child. Every single interaction is a training opportunity.
You have only one chance to raise your child.
Talk about polygamy! There is no true philosopher on the face of the earth but what will admit that such a system, properly carried out according to the order of heaven, is far superior to monogamy for the raising of healthy, robust children!
I am endlessly fascinated that playing football is considered a training ground for leadership, but raising children isn't. Hey, it made me a better leader: you have to take a lot of people's needs into account; you have to look down the road. Trying to negotiate getting a couple of kids to watch the same TV show requires serious diplomacy.
One of the biggest lessons I've learnt is patience. It's critical when raising a child.
If you bungle raising your children, I don't think whatever else you do matters very much.
Studies show that children best flourish when one mom and one dad are there to raise them.
Marriage is not absolutely for making children. But it is absolutely for making children followers of Jesus.
Raising children is a creative endeavor, an art rather than a science.
Thousands of years of human history have shown that the ideal setting for children to grow up is with a mother and a father committed to one another, living together, and sharing the responsibility of raising their children.
As the Japanese family gets more and more atomized, grandparents don't live with the nuclear family, so parents of children can't consult with their own parents about how to raise their children and rely on that to help raise them.
You need a whole community to raise a child. I have raised two children, alone.
Raising a child is an on-the-job kind of thing. There aren't a whole lot of manuals for that.
I don't think that anyone can prepare for raising a child. I think it's one of those jobs that is far more overwhelming than you could ever expect and far more satisfying than you can ever expect.
Marriage is about raising children. That's the purpose of the institution.
