Wayne Dyer Quotes

Critics never build anything.

My friends tell me that I have a tendency to point out problems without offering solutions, but they never tell me what I should do about it.

I always tell my critics that if they don't like this theory for helping people - come up with a better one and I'll use it.

Those who can, build. Those who can't, criticize.

Critics build nothing.

Finger pointing never got anything done!

The point is to solve problems, not point fingers.

Criticism is always easier than constructive solutions.

I don't like the blame game, though.

There is no use talking about the problem unless you talk about the solution

Never attack a problem without also presenting a solution.

Making mistakes is the privilege of the active. It is always the mediocre people who are negative, who spend their time proving that they were not wrong.

Nobody is defeated until he starts blaming somebody else. My advice to you is don't fix the blame. Fix the problem.

Put an Englishman into the garden of Eden, and he would find fault with the whole blasted concern; put a Yankee in, and he would see where he could alter it to advantage; put an Irishman in, and he would want to boss the thing; put a Dutchman in, and he would proceed to plant it.

Whining isn't a scalable solution.

it's good to know who hates you and it is good to be hated by the right people

Cynics criticize and winners analyze.

There are no problems that can’t be solved. The world is too full of options. If you can’t solve the #problem, it’s because you haven’t found the right option ... But the answer is always there.

Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.

Everybody has some responsibility. The point is, how are we going to fix it? And you don't fix it simply by blaming the other guy, or blaming the past.

We can't expect to solve problems if all we do is tear each other down. You can disagree with a certain policy without demonizing the person who espouses it.

The resentment that criticism engenders can demoralize employees, family members and friends, and still not correct the situation that has been condemned.

Show your contempt for the problem and your concern for the person.

Criticism is the forerunner of divorce, the cultivator of rebellion, sometimes an agent that leads to failure.

Empathy is like a universal solvent. Any problem immersed in empathy becomes soluble.