T. Harv Eker Quotes

We have to overcome our societal conditioning which says we are unworthy.

I just constantly tell myself that I should be the only one to define my worth and what I'm capable of and how I perceive myself. And that I should never source that worth from other people, especially strangers on social media. They don't know who I am, the length of my journey, who I am as a person.

The only opinion that really affects me is my own opinion of myself because I determine the way I am, not anyone else.

Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves.

It's impossible to consistently behave in a manner inconsistent with how we see ourselves. We can do very few things in a positive way if we feel negative about ourselves.

It is not insult from another that causes you pain. It is the part of your mind that agrees with the insult. Agree only with the truth about you, and you are free.

Intellectually, I know I am worthy, however arbitrary a thing worthiness is, and have always been worthy.

The only way to change the world is to change the main character of our story - the one we believe that we are. If we change the main character, if we respect ourselves, then just like magic, all the secondary characters will change. We can only give what we have, and if we don't respect ourselves, how can we respect others?

Does what you think of you determine your worth?

I just never really gave myself any credit. And because of that, nobody else did either. You mirror what the world mirrors to you.

We accept the love we think we deserve.

Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.

The only thing that matters in life, is your own opinion about yourself.

No matter what anybody says, what matters most is what you think of yourself.

You would love the way he sees you. He uses you as a weapon against himself and not merely because you did

Knowing you’re worthless doesn’t give you value any more than knowing you are a captive sets you free.

Self worth cannot be verfied by others

People have been telling me I'm a failure and that I'm doing it all wrong for 20 years now. Never trust anybody when they tell you how your story goes. You know your story. You write your own story.

Nothing has transformed my life more than realizing that it's a waste of time to evaluate my worthiness by weighing the reaction of the people in the stands.

It doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks of your life. All that matters is what you think of it, and what you decide to make of it.

I've learnt that you are who you are, and in the end, if you don't believe it, then no one will.

I've never lived my life in the opinion of others. I believe I'm a good person. I believe I'm a good mom. But that's for my kids to decide, not for the world.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

I do know one thing about me: I don't measure myself by others' expectations or let others define my worth.

I am whatever you say I am; if I wasn't, then why would you say I am.