Emily Thornberry Quotes

Negotiation is empathy. It's almost trite to say that if you can't put yourself in the seat of the other person you're speaking with, you're not going to do well. It's not about being a bully, not about making offers people can't refuse.

I feel like anything can be worked out; you just gotta talk through it as adults.

You need to be able to agree from time to time if we're going to get anywhere. Once you have started a civil dialogue, it's a much smoother road to compromise. The key thing to remember is it's a daily practice.

At one time or another, we have all faced the temptation to disconnect by giving someone the silent treatment. After being married to Joel for more than twenty-one years, I have learned that is not the best way to handle a disagreement.

My job is to come up with something that you like and you agree with that you would play wholeheartedly. If we disagree, I may not be doing my job correctly.

The best way to solve problems and to fight against war is through dialogue.

Avoid sarcasm. Don't insist on the last word.

The best way to resolve any problem in the human world is for all sides to sit down and talk.

I'd rather lose an argument than get into a long discussion in order to win it.

My stay-married secret would probably be exercising good communication, not when you have to but all the time. I think if you do that, you kinda just cleanse the situations, so there's not build up. I think that's probably the best way to do it.

It's learning how to negotiate to keep both sides happy - whether it's for a multi-million dollar contract or just which show to watch on TV, that determines the quality and enjoyment of our lives.

I simply do not think that yelling, swearing, threatening or belittling will get you to the place you want to be faster than kindness, understanding, patience and a little willingness to compromise.

As we mature, there are people with whom we run out of steam, but there are also those with whom a little straight talking would prove rewarding.

Some people are like wheelbarrows; useful only when pushed, and very easily upset. The time to stop talking is when the other person nods his head affirmatively but says nothing.

Problems should be solved by talking and not in an aggressive manner.

Negotiations can create conditions that can lead to solutions.

Hold on. It’s not a fight. It’s a discussion.

Don't beg, don't threaten and don't assume you're always right.

I don’t always agree with my wife, but we discuss the issue with love and respect. And then I say “yes.”

The more people talk directly to each other, the better. Dialogue is the way of solving issues.

Unfortunately, I am not the typical, old-school, 'Yes dear, you're right,' just to get out of a situation. I am more of the type to work it out until you think I'm right or I think you're right.

I'm willing to sit down with anybody and have constructive criticism.

Miscommunication is the number one cause of all problems; communication is your bridge to other people. Without it, there's nothing. So when it's damaged, you have to solve all these problems it creates.

Conflict, when handled correctly, strengthens.

I do believe that any conflict has a better chance of being resolved if two people can come face to face.